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MATURITY: THE KEY TO AUTHENTIC MARRIED LIFE, Engr Bartholomew

Most people think that when you get to a certain age, the next thing that should be on your bucket list should be getting married.

Well, it’s true that age is quite important but the maturity of the individuals involved should be of a higher importance.

Maturity is not just in age but in how we handle ourselves and respond to certain situations in life.

Unfortunately, there are many husbands and wives who are immature, having no self restraint, always wanting their way, speaking carelessly, seeking to revenge when they are hurt or offended, believing the world revolves around them.

These are signs of immaturity and it’s what children do.

The dictionary defines immaturity as having or showing an emotional or intellectual development appropriate to someone younger.

Remember that marriage is about being a team; it requires growth in us and in the other person.

Don’t be bent on just telling it like it is,or just having your way.

Be mature in your spirit, be mature physically, Be mature emotionally and intellectually.

Marriage is no child’s play and it’s definitely not a business one should venture into without having a matured mindset.

In a nutshell, don’t rush into marriage on the basis of your age if you are not mentally ready to deal with emerging marital issues that might become evident in the journey of marriage.

I hope this helps someone, share if it does.

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Mr. MJ Chukwuebuka Maduka
Mr. MJ Chukwuebuka Maduka
8 months ago

True talk brotherly. May God bless you dearly for us. Amen.

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