MY CANDID ADVICE FOR DESPERATE SINGLE LADIES, Engr Bartholomew

Dear single lady,

The reason men don’t respect you is because you are too desperate for love. And the truth is if you want to have a healthy relationship, you need to be with someone who values you/values whatever you share.

Nowadays, a lot of young ladies are so desperate to have a relationship but the truth is; once a man notice a woman is desperate to have him, there’s a high probability that such man will play on her emotions, take from her, deceive her and eventually leave her in the end.

As a young lady, you must know your self worth and you must respect yourself enough, that’s when you can be valued and respected by any man.

These days, it’s so sad that most young ladies mistakes desperation for love.

But I want you to know that you can love, care and put effort into your relationship without being desperate.

Most times you try to show love to your partner, the way you go about it reeks of desperation, thus you must learn to balance things up when you are trying to show love and care.

So in a nutshell, know your self worth, value yourself and don’t be desperate for love.

That’s when you can be valued, loved and have a healthy relationship.

Without mincing words, no man will respect you if you are too desperate for love.

It’s better to stay with a man who values you, values what you share than forcing yourself on a man who have no respect for you or what you feel.